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Wedding Planner vs. Day-of Coordinator: A Practical Comparison

A side-by-side look at what each role covers, where responsibility shifts, and how to tell which one your wedding actually needs.

6 min readUpdated August 27, 2026

The short answer

A wedding planner works with you from early decisions through the wedding day, shaping budget, vendors, and design over months. A day-of coordinator (often called month-of) joins in the final weeks to confirm details, finalize the timeline, and run the event itself. Planners help you build the plan; coordinators execute a plan you've already made. The right fit depends on how much of that planning work you want off your plate.

What's the core difference between a wedding planner and a day-of coordinator?

A wedding planner is involved from early planning through the wedding day, helping shape budget, vendor choices, and design over weeks or months. A day-of coordinator steps in near the end, after most decisions are made, to confirm logistics and manage the wedding day itself.

The names describe timing and scope, not skill level. A strong coordinator can save a well-planned day from small breakdowns. A strong planner shapes decisions earlier that make that day easier to run in the first place.

Wedding planner: involved from early planning through the wedding day itself
Day-of coordinator: involved mainly in the final weeks and on the day
Wedding planner: helps you build the plan as decisions come up
Day-of coordinator: takes an existing plan and runs it on schedule
Both roles can include full on-site management on the wedding day

Who actually makes the decisions in each model?

With a planner, decisions are usually made together over time: they bring options, you choose, and they follow through on contracts and logistics. With a coordinator, the decisions are already yours. They review what's arranged, flag gaps, and confirm details, but typically don't renegotiate contracts or steer vendor selection.

If you want ongoing guidance on budget, vendors, or design from the start, a coordinator alone won't fill that need. That work sits with a planner or with you.

Planner: co-creates the plan across many decision points over months
Planner: recommends options based on your budget and priorities
Coordinator: works from decisions you've already finalized before hiring them
Coordinator: flags missing pieces without reshaping vendor choices or budget
Coordinator role centers on confirming a plan, not building one

When does each role typically start and end?

A planner's involvement often begins near the start of engagement and continues through the wedding day, with contact spread across the full timeline. A day-of coordinator's active work usually begins a few weeks before the wedding, though exact timing depends on the contract you sign.

Before that handoff point, you're the one managing planning tasks. The coordinator's first meeting is where they take over what you've already built, so it helps to arrive with organized files.

Planner: engaged from early planning stages through wedding-day execution
Coordinator: active involvement typically starts a few weeks before the wedding
First coordinator meeting usually reviews vendor contacts and signed contracts
First coordinator meeting includes a walkthrough of the day-of timeline
Ask any provider directly when their active involvement begins and ends

How do vendor coordination and timeline management differ between the two?

A planner is usually involved in researching vendors, comparing options, and managing those relationships for months, including handling issues before the wedding. A coordinator typically steps in after vendors are booked, collecting contracts and contact details, confirming arrival windows, and finalizing a timeline already drafted.

On the wedding day itself, both roles can act as the single point of contact so vendors don't need to reach you or your family directly.

Planner: researches and recommends vendors matched to your budget and style
Planner: builds and adjusts the timeline repeatedly as details change
Coordinator: gathers final vendor contracts and confirms logistics before the day
Coordinator: reviews an existing timeline draft for gaps or unrealistic timing
Coordinator: manages real-time timeline changes and communicates them to vendors

What can a day-of coordinator usually not cover?

Day-of coordination is built around the final stretch before the wedding, so it generally doesn't include the months of decisions that shape budget, vendor lineup, and overall design. If those tasks still feel unresolved, a coordinator alone likely won't close that gap.

This matters most for couples who assume 'day-of' means help from booking through the wedding. In most standard scopes, it means help concentrated near the end, not throughout.

Building or managing a wedding budget from the earliest planning stages
Researching and selecting vendors across ceremony and reception categories
Negotiating contract terms, pricing, or vendor payment schedules
Developing an overall design concept or wedding-day vision
Making early decisions about ceremony structure or reception flow

How do you decide which role fits your wedding?

Weigh how much early planning work you want to do yourself against how confident you feel managing vendors, budget, and design without guidance. If those tasks feel manageable but you don't want to run the day itself, a coordinator may be enough. If the volume of decisions feels overwhelming, a planner covers more ground.

Also weigh complexity: more vendors, more moving parts, or a multi-day event often benefit from earlier, ongoing support rather than a late handoff a few weeks out.

Choose a day-of coordinator if you're comfortable planning but want the day run smoothly
Choose a wedding planner if you want support from early decisions through execution
Weigh your wedding's complexity against how much time you have to plan it
Ask each candidate exactly what's included, since scope varies by provider
Set a decision date so you're not choosing under time pressure

Common questions

A few things couples ask next.

Can a day-of coordinator start earlier than the final weeks?

Some coordinators offer extended packages that begin earlier, but this isn't standard across providers. Ask directly what's included in the contract before assuming earlier support is part of the deal.

Is a day-of coordinator usually less expensive than a full-service planner?

Scope tends to track with cost, since coordination covers less time and fewer responsibilities than full planning. Exact pricing varies by provider, region, and wedding complexity, so compare quotes directly rather than assuming a fixed gap.

Does a venue coordinator replace the need for either role?

A venue coordinator typically manages the venue's own logistics, like space setup and venue staff, not your full wedding-day plan. Many couples still hire a planner or day-of coordinator to handle vendors, timeline, and details beyond the venue's scope.

Can you hire a planner for part of the process and a coordinator for the rest?

Some couples use a planner for early decisions like budget and vendor selection, then bring in a separate day-of coordinator for execution. If you do this, confirm with both parties how the handoff will work so nothing gets missed between them.

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